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Chart Ruler & Life Purpose
Your life purpose is to [Ascendant/chart ruler] [house].
Examples:
Sagittarius Ascendant, Jupiter in 4th - your life purpose is to expand internally.
Taurus Ascendant, Venus in 8th - your life purpose is to accumulate secretly.
Cancer Ascendant, Moon in 11th - your life purpose is to nurture socially.
Leo Ascendant (sun): exist, shine, radiate, proceed, become, create
Cancer Ascendant: (moon): feel, shift, evoke, sense, nurture, understand
Gemini/Virgo Ascendant (Mercury): think, understand, reason, learn, teach
Taurus/Libra Ascendant (Venus): share, accumulate, negotiate, beautify, love
Aries Ascendant (Mars): initiate, challenge, conquer, survive, accomplish
Sagittarius Ascendant (Jupiter): mentor, experience, expand, inspire, discover
Capricorn Ascendant (Saturn): endure, earn, mature, evolve, strengthen
Aquarius Ascendant (Uranus): change, innovate, progress, rebel, defy
Pisces Ascendant (Neptune): transcend, absorb, enlighten, subsume, illude
Scorpio Ascendant (Pluto): transform, empower, destroy, control, recreate
Chart ruler in 1st: openly, directly, independently, fully, actively
Chart ruler in 2nd: securely, materially, satisfyingly, increasingly, selfishly
Chart ruler in 3rd: communicably, mentally, mutually, inclusively, resourcefully
Chart ruler in 4th: internally, psychologically, comfortably, familiarly, emotionally
Chart ruler in 5th: creatively, individually, personally, romantically, playfully
Chart ruler in 6th: routinely, collaboratively, dutifully, healthily, cleanly
Chart ruler in 7th: interpersonally, receptively, closely, committedly, admittedly
Chart ruler in 8th: secretly, controversially, intimately, radically, transformatively
Chart ruler in 9th: adventurously, fearlessly, philosophically, freely, wildly
Chart ruler in 10th: publicly, successfully, recognizably, powerfully, boldly
Chart ruler in 11th: experimentally, inventively, uniquely, socially, communally
Chart ruler in 12th: spiritually, unconsciously, intrinsically, painfully, karmically
*Supplementary to the chart ruler & in the same sense, you can also look at the ruling planet of the sign / house your North Node is in.
Chiron in the Signs & Houses
Chiron is a comet with a unique and erratic orbit. In the natal chart, Chiron is symbolized by the “wounded healer”. It represents our deepest wound, and our efforts to heal the wound. Chiron was named after the centaur in Greek mythology who was a healer and teacher who, ironically, could not heal himself.
Chiron in our natal charts points to where we have healing powers as the result of our own deep spiritual wounds. We may over-compensate in these areas of life. Chiron, as a wounded healer, first must face issues of low self-worth and feelings of inadequacy and learn to rise above these issues. Because the wound goes deep, and we may work hard to overcome the wound, healing powers are potent.
Chiron in Aries
Chiron in Aries affects the sense of self. They may find themselves on a voyage of self-discovery or need to overcome feelings of worthlessness when Chiron is placed here. Chiron deals with healing so they may need to discover ways of healing themselves. This sign is associated with headaches, head wounds and other injuries in this area. They may need to deal with an actual physical injury like these or it could be a psychological wound to their sense of self. If they look at themselves they will see their worth. They need to assert themselves and track their accomplishments take charge in order to heal themselves. They will learn to value themselves and how to care for themselves. They’ll find that once they value themselves, others will too.
Chiron in the 1st House
Indicates a journey of self-discovery. Possibly, there were restrictions in early childhood that will have had the effect on you of either retreating into yourself or having to fight to be noticed. There will be a need to find personal meaning in existence. Some will do this by being overly aggressive, others by withdrawing. Having a job or interest that is really enjoyed will give a positive direction to your life.
Chiron in Taurus
Chiron in Taurus reflects a wound of neglect. At some point in life, they felt that they didn’t get enough of something, whether it was material things, or emotional, mental or spiritual attention. They feel unfulfilled and undernourished in some way. It all boils down to their sense of worth. Many people shop to fill these kinds of voids… to heal they need to look beyond this quick fix to their inner need. They shouldn’t deny themselves the simple pleasures of life… they need to learn to value themselves and treat themselves the way they want others to treat them. Love is all around. They were born to love and be loved. If they learn to value themselves, others will value them also. They should take time for introspection.
Chiron in the 2nd House
Indicates great self-confidence, so long as there are physical comforts. There may have been little or no affection or even inappropriate affection, in childhood. This could now be shown through stubbornness and a dismissive attitude to others’ opinions. You could be a great teacher of self-worth when you have dealt with your own issues.
Chiron in Gemini
Chiron in Gemini deals with communication and the nervous system. They may need healing for the way they communicate. Maybe they are terribly shy or maybe they feel no one listens to them. Perhaps they feel unable to communicate clearly enough or feel they are not as smart as those around them. Whatever the problem, they need to take the time to learn how to overcome it. They should take some time and list the things they are very knowledgeable about. This will give them more confidence. They should spend time researching. They could practice speaking or writing in order to communicate their ideas. Chiron’s gift should be used to broaden their horizons in ways they didn’t think was possible.
Chiron in the 3rd House
Indicates, perhaps unintentional, criticism by parents or siblings about the way you expressed yourself, producing a lack of self- confidence. There may have been some injury to your voice or you may have been too shy to speak. Your thoughts and words may take time to be expressed so as to be correct. Any errors you make will be excused so as not to appear to be in the wrong. Do not let yourself be hampered by technicalities, and learn to admit to mistakes.
Chiron in Cancer
Chiron in Cancer may feel like an outsider. They may feel unwanted, un-nurtured and unloved. On the good side, they are very nurturing themselves. It is difficult for them to let others care for them. They may give to everyone except themselves. They may end up taking in every stray that crosses their path. They need to learn to give to themselves and cherish their own needs. This helps balance them and make them whole. Opening themselves up to accept love and care from others is a big step towards healing that inner hurt. If they can learn to indulge themselves once in awhile, they will begin to realize what they have been missing all along.
Chiron in the 4th House
Indicates an insecure early family life, so much so that feelings of abandonment or being the ‘black sheep’ persist. A lack of self- confidence may make you think doing anything with your life is a waste of time. You probably have a lot of time for other people and have great empathy. Try to bring out the unique you by using this feeling of being ‘different’.
Chiron in Leo
Chiron in Leo feels that their talents have been overlooked. Perhaps they feel they never got the chance to shine, or maybe they feel awkward or untalented. They have the gift to help others bring out their own creativity. The difficulty they have expressing their own talents may stem from being stifled as a child or forced to perform by their families. In order to help overcome these feelings, Chiron in Leo needs to find a way to touch their inner child and reawaken their creativity. It may help to do some creative play with their own children or to find a class that they find interesting. The unrealized potential is there, right below the surface.
Chiron in the 5th House
Indicates a feeling of having to take life too seriously, too early. You are easily deflated due, probably, to parents who told you that you could not do ‘that’ – though you would have known that you could. There will be a need to draw boundaries for ego survival. Though do not go so far as to cut yourself off from people completely. You are very creative but do not recognize it. Just do it.
Chiron in Virgo
Chiron in Virgo will usually have some kind of health issues to contend with. They may feel there are things wrong that can never be healed. This combination can end up being overly critical or obsessed with tiny details. They may also just give up and live in chaos. They may become hypochondriacs or neglect their own health. They must learn to deal with imperfection. This can be very difficult for them. On the positive side, Chiron and Virgo understand each other. They may be able to heal not only others, but themselves. Volunteering or working in health care may help them to develop a realistic approach to healing and turn them to a holistic approach so they can treat the whole person.
Chiron in the 6th House
Indicates a pre-occupation with health issues, maybe to do with accidents when you were young. You tend to obsess about your own health. You have great healing ability and when you have come to the point of dealing with your own issues, you will achieve great success in this field.
Chiron in Libra
Chiron in Libra suggests a relationship that needs to be healed, or maybe they got hurt or rejected in a relationship. Learning to ground themselves may help them deal with their sensitivity. They may get caught up in a codependent relationship or be abused. They may feel that every relationship they have goes wrong. By learning that they are whole on their own can come as a great relief. They create more balance by learning this lesson. Chiron in Libra may also learn that a partner can help them heal in some way. One of the lessons that may be learned with this combination is that conflict may lead to a greater sense of intimacy.
Chiron in the 7th House
Indicates a feeling of rejection to do with relationships, maybe the parents split-up or were distant with each other. You may marry early and there may be more than one marriage or close relationship. You are quite empathic and even psychic. There is a need for finding a balance between you and your partner – you are not one person. Find your ‘self’.
Chiron in Scorpio
Chiron in Scorpio may find their gifts of empathy and psychic ability are improved through their experiences. They may find that they grow in wisdom through the transformative experiences of life like birth and death. They may suffer a great loss in some way early in life or feel that something inside has died. They may be afraid of their own power or feel powerless. This makes them want to cover up their feelings of inadequacy with false bravado. They may worry endlessly about losing their possessions or loved ones. They can learn a valuable lesson to appreciate life, and that by losing something or someone, you can still become richer by what you have. They may become rather preoccupied with loss if they are not cautious. They can help others through their grief or stress with their great understanding in this area.
Chiron in the 8th House
Indicates losses through the death of loved ones but also gains through births. Personal desires will be very important to you, to the point of ‘anything goes’. You will have psychic abilities that, when trained, will be a great force for good. You could be a mystic with great insight.
Chiron in Sagittarius
Chiron in Sagittarius is indicative of a break with traditions or spiritual teachings that may cause pain. Life may seem like one long continuous spiritual crisis. They may decide that atheism or fundamentalism is what is right for them. They may feel they have no deep understanding or wisdom. It is common for them to feel that they are meant for glory but that something went terribly wrong. Depending on how Chiron and Sagittarius are situated, those with this combination may not listen to advice in those areas, such as finances, for example, or relationships. When they are modest about their knowledge, they will be more trustworthy when giving advice. Chiron in Sagittarius may feel confined in a mundane existence. By realizing that there is wisdom in their own heart, they will begin to heal.
Chiron in the 9th House
Indicates some crisis to do with spiritual teaching. A strong belief of one sort or another that must be channelled correctly to give the right balance. Being the eternal student should be enjoyable, not stressful, so take time to relax. You could be a very good teacher if your extreme opinions are modified.
Chiron in Capricorn
Chiron in Capricorn may be a workaholic in order to prove their self-worth. They were often rejected in some manner during childhood. They may feel ignored or unrecognized. They may spend their time organizing and trying to control everything. They could also go the other way and resist organization in any way, shape or form. They often feel they are working harder than everyone else to no avail. They feel a need for respect and status so much that they lose sight and don’t stop to enjoy any of their accomplishments. To learn this lesson, they need to know how to acknowledge their own value. If they stop and make note of their achievements, they will see that they already have status.
Chiron in the 10th House
Indicates a strong desire to prove your self-worth because of childhood rejection. Your need for status may become obsessive, and your good leadership quality needs to be controlled. Improving the lot of others, close to you, is admirable but not if it brings you down. It will only make you feel resentful and bitter. Try to accept yourself as you are.
Chiron in Aquarius
Chiron in Aquarius may feel uncomfortable in large groups. This may stem from feeling different when they were young. Social rejection makes them want to withdraw from the public and stay only with those with the same interests. They may feel disconnected or isolated. They don’t fit in. They have a real talent for helping others express themselves. They may find themselves only interested in new ideas or stuck resolutely to the old. To learn this lesson in healing, they need to learn to be themselves and cherish their differences. This can be a tough lesson, as it is difficult for some to be comfortable in their skin. Taking part in groups that encourage the expression of individuality can help them integrate this lesson.
Chiron in the 11th House
Indicates rejection from peers because of being ‘different’. You may feel some discomfort in large groups, so you only associate with people of like mind. You have a capacity for leadership, if only you would loosen-up with strangers – we are, after all, connected to everything and everyone. You have a special thing to do in this life, you ‘just’ have to realize what it is.
Chiron in Pisces
Chiron in Pisces is always in crisis. This is a universal level crisis, nothing small ever hits this combination. They may be religious or spiritual crises that keep this combination in a tizzy. They may be at risk for depression or drug use. They may feel they have lost faith in the universe. They may feel guilty even though there is no reason to feel that way. They may play the victim. They have an innate ability to attract those down on their luck and they try their best to help. They need clarity. Disillusionment and betrayal can make life seem harsh. They must learn that sometimes things happen for a reason. By examining their problems, they may find deeper insight and connection.
Chiron in the 12th House
Indicates nervous tension perhaps picked up from a close family member. You probably have psychic, empathic and healing abilities. Don’t keep shutting yourself off from people – they need your unique abilities. Help others by learning to use these ‘gifts’ – it will give great, personal benefit but you will need to be emotionally strong and mature.
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Astrological Crash Course: Chiron
Chiron describes how we heal and heal others. It can signify moving on from a deep, intense struggle. Chiron is where we feel held back, what we need to move on from, and how we advise others based on the struggles we’ve gone through. Chiron has three parts to decipher. The sign, what the house signifies based on the sign, and what the house means.
For example: My Chiron is in Libra in my 5th house. This means that I constantly am comparing myself to others and I need other people to tell me who I am. I try to make myself whole by self-expression through creative means and by teaching others whenever I can.
This will begin to make more sense as you read up on your sign/house, I promise!
C H I R O N I N T H E S I G N S
ARIES: Having Chiron in Aries is going to make you feel like you don’t really know where you belong. You can have problems with asserting yourself, making yourself feel like you matter at all, and trying to figure out who you’re meant to be. In order to completely heal yourself, you have to try to be more assertive and recognize that you do have the power to make your life what you want it to be. Your house will signify where in your life you’ll see the most progress.
TAURUS: Having Chiron in Taurus leaves you feeling left behind. It’s common for those with this placement to feel neglected and forgotten about. You could feel like you’re always missing something, that there’s someone or something in your life that you desperately need, but never get. Healing begins with learning to regard yourself as something worth loving. Love yourself, value yourself, and stand up for yourself. Your house will signify what you value the most.
GEMINI: Having Chiron in Gemini can make you shy and withdrawn. Feeling like you’re not smart enough or good enough in comparison to your peers is also a common thing for those with this placement. Inferiority complexes, not being able to properly communicate with others, and lacking confidence are all traits of having Chiron in Gemini. To heal, you’ll have to become more confident in yourself. Your house will signify which part of your life will make the biggest impact on what you think and feel.
CANCER: Having Chiron in Cancer means you’re selfless to a fault. You constantly give and give to others, but never expect much in return – if anything. You can feel like no one wants you around or that you’re just bothering everyone. In order to heal, you’ll have to stop giving so much of yourself away to other people and be selfish sometimes. Your house will signify where you feel like you’re being held back.
LEO: Having Chiron in Leo means that you feel like no one cares about you and appreciates you. You can feel like nothing you do is good enough for anyone and that there’s always going to be someone better than you. It can feel like because of this, people never pay attention to you and think that you’re just in the way. To get over this and to heal, you need to try to believe in yourself more. Your house will signify which areas of your life you’re the most creative in.
VIRGO: Having Chiron in Virgo means you worry way too much. You worry about everything all the time and you find fault in everything you say and do. You’re constantly criticizing yourself and never feel like you can live up to your standards or the standards of anyone else. To heal, you’ll need to learn to accept mistakes and minor problems. Your house will signify how you make changes in your life.
LIBRA: Having Chiron in Libra means that you need the approval of others to make yourself feel like you’re worthy of anything. You never really know who you truly are and you need other people to tell you who you are and which role to play in your own life. To heal, you need more structure in your life to make you feel like you’re more in control of what happens to you. Your house will signify how you make yourself feel complete.
SCORPIO: Having Chiron in Scorpio means that you’re always worried about people leaving you. You feel like you don’t have any power over your life or what happens to you. Being left behind is one of your biggest fears and you’re scared that it’s always going to become a reality. In order to heal, you’ll have to find yourself and become your own best friend. Your house will signify what empowers you and how you’ll give power to yourself.
SAGITTARIUS: Having Chiron in Sagittarius means that you don’t feel like you connect with yourself. You might feel like you’re detached from your body, or that your soul is detached from yourself. It’s possible that you don’t feel like you have anything to offer anyone or that you feel like you don’t know enough about life to make it. To heal yourself, you’ll need to find out who you are deep down and connect with that person. Your house will signify how you can realign your soul with your body, how you’ll feel complete.
CAPRICORN: Having Chiron in Capricorn means that you don’t really know what your purpose is. You can feel directionless, like you don’t have a reason to be here. It’s possible that you feel like everyone in your life has turned you away and that you can’t do anything to regain their love. Healing begins with finding what makes you feel like you matter and finding your self worth. You house will signify how you find balance in your life and even yourself out.
AQUARIUS: Having Chiron in Aquarius means that you might not feel like you fit in anywhere. That even with your friends, you never feel like you have a place. You can feel like you’re just like everyone else, that you’re not special or important, and that you’re easily replaceable. In order to heal, you have to be around people who care about you and love you completely. Your house will signify how you connect to the life you live.
PISCES: Having Chiron in Pisces means that you can perpetually feel guilty, even if you haven’t done anything to feel guilty about. You can feel like it’s always you against the world, that people are always mad at you, and that you’re always a victim. In order to heal and get past this, you have to clear your mind and find a reason to keep going. Your house will signify where you fit in and where you feel most comfortable.
C H I R O N I N T H E H O U S E S
1ST HOUSE: Having Chiron in your 1st house means that you’re a natural leader. You find it easy to take charge and people respect you and see you as an authority figure.
2ND HOUSE: Having Chiron in your 2nd house means that you’re great at achieving balance and teaching others what’s important. You can easily change how a person thinks and feels and get them to believe what you believe.
3RD HOUSE: Having Chiron in your 3rd house means that you’re a great teacher. You’re amazing at telling other people how things work, communicating, and exchanging information.
4TH HOUSE: Having Chiron in your 4th house means that you’re very intuitive. You do best when you can connect things to your emotions. You’re a good counselor and don’t mind listening to people talk about their problems.
5TH HOUSE: Having Chiron in your 5th house means that you’re great with children. You’re a natural teacher and find it easy to express yourself through creative means.
6TH HOUSE: Having Chiron in your 6th house means that you love to help other people. You want to make everyone be as good at what they do as possible and as healthy as they possibly can be.
7TH HOUSE: Having Chiron in your 7th house means that you tend to mirror other people and adopt their personalities as your own. You tend to understand who you are through other people and their actions.
8TH HOUSE: Having Chiron in your 8th house means that you feel most empowered when you can control your emotions completely. You can be prone to emotional outbursts, but when you can handle them, you feel amazing.
9TH HOUSE: Having Chiron in your 9th house means that you’re constantly trying to find the truth. You’re really great at teaching other people and find a lot of joy in offering advice to other people.
10TH HOUSE: Having Chiron in your 10th house means that you want to treat everyone the same and help your dreams become a reality. You’re very idealistic and feel the best when you can make some of your ideals happen.
11TH HOUSE: Having Chiron in your 11th house means that you feel best when you can just go with the flow. You understand that things just happen sometimes and there’s nothing you can do about it.
12TH HOUSE: Having Chiron in your 12th house means that you’re very intuitive. You use your intuition to help you decide which people to follow and which to leave alone. You do best when someone else is telling you what to do.
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